教你一招：怎样对付搭讪男

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美女很容易被一些无聊的男子搭讪。那这时要如何应对呢？

如果你被别人搭讪，阻止他继续说下去是个好办法。很快速，很坚决的说："不，我不认识你，你别碰我，离我远点。"

如果你作为旁观者，也是可以帮助她的。你是威猛的男士的话可以直接过去要求无聊的人走开；如果你也是女士，那就把她拉入你们的圈子吧！人多力量大。

You are sitting in a bar minding your own business when you are seeing an attractive young woman and then this guy shows up.

" Is anybody sitting here?" "No." "Want a drink?" "I've got one. Thank you." People at the bar can't help but notice the guy 's lame come-ons and the girl  doing her best to avoid a conversation. "You are beautiful." "Thank you." "Cheers to you." But he is relentless .

"Excuse me, I know this is a little fool, but can I get your phone number?" "I don't even know you. No, I am sorry." "Come on." " I don't even know you, sir." " Well, I don't know this is gonna work." "No." " You now give me your phone number." "Seriously, I really want your phone number." "I'm not gonna give you my phone number." "Come on, give me your phone number." "No." "Please." "Please stop touching me." "I'm asking nicely. Come on."

So what you do? Step into help her when a guy like this is invading her personal space. Our hidden cameras are rolling at this bar at the New Jersy shore, to find out. "Come on, I swear you look just like..." "No, stop" "What am I doing?" "I don't know you, please sir." " I haven't done anything." "Don't touch me." "What do you mean, don't touch you? I saw you looking at me."

Verbal passes are now getting physical. Suddenly this woman swings into action. "Would you like to join us?" "That would..." "We're going right outside." "Yeah, we all go." "No, you are not invited. " "No. Sit where you are." "Leave her alone." "Sorry." "Now." "Sorry."

What if the witnesses are women? "Come on." "Stop I don't know you. Please, get out of my space." "I am trying to meet you." " She's coming. Come down over here..." As a group they react just like the guys inviting the harassed woman into their protective force. " Just relax and watch me, that's all." "Can I just get your phone number?" "I don't know you." "Oh my god." "I know, but...I just think you are beautiful... I just want...buy you somthing, like coffee even." "No, thank you. Thanks for the compliment , but..." "Come on." "She is not interested, can you leave us alone please." "What's your name?" "Please leave us alone." "We are not interested in making friends right now." "I am just trying to be friendly..." " I understand but right now we are just no interested. We wanna have a drink, we are talking. Could you just go away for a little while, thank you."

"He wouldn't let up and we were starting to get a little, you know, worried for her." "Oh, my god."